Get Back Your Ex-Girlfriend Just By Being Less Attainable And An Increased Challenge

You were a challenge for her. You had a superior significance and she was irresistibly fascinated by you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"

I'm about to make a wild guess here, but could it be that as time went on, you have become less and less of a challenge for her? And could it be that at this time, you're zero challenge for her? Not to mention that she understands that if she wanted to, at any moment she could get you back again and wrapped around her little finger just by saying the word?

I am going to be crude here, but as you may already know, to become a challenge once again you need to demonstrate to your ex-girlfriend that her sexuality has no control over you any longer. Think about what it's like when you are stalking her with not returned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. After which think about what it is like when you keep doing it (as many guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You are indicating to the woman that you are a low-value guy with no other sexual options.

Your lover will not respect you again until you refuse her sexual dominance over you. Fortunately you are doing that now by not specifically interacting with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.

Make sure you stay 100% strict with your communication cut-off. You should not be "friends" with her, because that rewards her with the continued consent of power over you while providing her a handy excuse to stay broken up. (Your lover reasons that she's letting you down easy doing this, assuaging any culpability she may feel.)

On the other hand, make sure to keep her locked in with your things. Most likely lots of your possessions are at her place, and vice versa. She may also owe you money as well. She might request a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you want all of it back again.

The best response to this is definitely "No, not yet. The reason is simply because her holding onto your things (and you holding onto hers) is still locking you two in and guaranteeing future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would result from settling your accounts.

For the next 3 weeks, you must completely acknowledge -- and embrace -- the fact that you're an independent guy now. Take what happened with your ex-lover and learn from it. You've got a golden chance to revolutionize your life which will eventually allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.

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